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		<title>by: John Palmer</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2006 14:48:36 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>Re: Clinton and Paula Jones.

Clinton did not sexually harass Paula Jones. He might - if she is telling the truth - have flashed her. That's rude and nasty, and if she, or a friend or family member decked then-governor Clinton, and said &quot;You don't go near her again, asshole!&quot; I'd have no respect for the man *at all* if that person spent even a day in jail for assault. 

(I'm not suggesting that it's okay to deck someone for flashing their weenie. I'm saying that, if he was a respectable man, he'd have used his power as governor to prevent jail time, because he'd have known he stepped over the line. Whether he deserved to get hit over it is a question I won't answer; whether a respectable man would admit he *provoked* it is certain: he would.)

Remember that the case was so baseless that it could not be taken on a contingency basis. It was, open and shut, not a case of harassment. There was no offer of a quid pro quo, there was no evidence that she was subjected to a hostile work environment. 

There is a question over whether he was an asshole to her, on a personal level... but being an asshole is not actionable. 

If I am to assume Jones is not a liar, I would suggest that Clinton made a very clumsy, drunken come-on to her, one that sickened her, and she wanted revenge, and I admit I'm sympathetic to that. However, I don't see the incident, even if it happened as she says, as a character defining moment.

This is especially true if, as has been suggested, that Bill Clinton was sexually abused. (For reasons of my own, I find that suggestion to be a credible possibility.) Victims of sexual assault often have difficulties with boundary issues. 

That he might have been a womanizer doesn't bother me a bit, though it's not politically correct to say so. What he did with other women was between him, Hillary, and the other women. Show me he violated the boundaries of consent in a serious manner, and then I'll be concerned about him as a person; past that, and, as I said, it's between him and his partner(s).

The stuff between him and Monica, people have made that out to be quid pro quo and power imbalance, and all that. I don't know, and it's not provable. Yes, he tried to make sure she got a good position that she was happy with in the aftermath... but that wsa probably so she'd feel loyalty to him, and not write a best selling &quot;tell all&quot; book later. And yes, there's a power imbalance, but when you get right down to it, there's a huge power imbalance between the President and every US citizen. What he did was stupid and risky, but he had no reason to think it would blow up as badly as it did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Re: Clinton and Paula Jones.</p>
	<p>Clinton did not sexually harass Paula Jones. He might - if she is telling the truth - have flashed her. That&#8217;s rude and nasty, and if she, or a friend or family member decked then-governor Clinton, and said &#8220;You don&#8217;t go near her again, asshole!&#8221; I&#8217;d have no respect for the man *at all* if that person spent even a day in jail for assault. </p>
	<p>(I&#8217;m not suggesting that it&#8217;s okay to deck someone for flashing their weenie. I&#8217;m saying that, if he was a respectable man, he&#8217;d have used his power as governor to prevent jail time, because he&#8217;d have known he stepped over the line. Whether he deserved to get hit over it is a question I won&#8217;t answer; whether a respectable man would admit he *provoked* it is certain: he would.)</p>
	<p>Remember that the case was so baseless that it could not be taken on a contingency basis. It was, open and shut, not a case of harassment. There was no offer of a quid pro quo, there was no evidence that she was subjected to a hostile work environment. </p>
	<p>There is a question over whether he was an asshole to her, on a personal level&#8230; but being an asshole is not actionable. </p>
	<p>If I am to assume Jones is not a liar, I would suggest that Clinton made a very clumsy, drunken come-on to her, one that sickened her, and she wanted revenge, and I admit I&#8217;m sympathetic to that. However, I don&#8217;t see the incident, even if it happened as she says, as a character defining moment.</p>
	<p>This is especially true if, as has been suggested, that Bill Clinton was sexually abused. (For reasons of my own, I find that suggestion to be a credible possibility.) Victims of sexual assault often have difficulties with boundary issues. </p>
	<p>That he might have been a womanizer doesn&#8217;t bother me a bit, though it&#8217;s not politically correct to say so. What he did with other women was between him, Hillary, and the other women. Show me he violated the boundaries of consent in a serious manner, and then I&#8217;ll be concerned about him as a person; past that, and, as I said, it&#8217;s between him and his partner(s).</p>
	<p>The stuff between him and Monica, people have made that out to be quid pro quo and power imbalance, and all that. I don&#8217;t know, and it&#8217;s not provable. Yes, he tried to make sure she got a good position that she was happy with in the aftermath&#8230; but that wsa probably so she&#8217;d feel loyalty to him, and not write a best selling &#8220;tell all&#8221; book later. And yes, there&#8217;s a power imbalance, but when you get right down to it, there&#8217;s a huge power imbalance between the President and every US citizen. What he did was stupid and risky, but he had no reason to think it would blow up as badly as it did.
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		<title>by: Open Reading Frame</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2006 20:25:09 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;strong&gt;When life gives you melons......&lt;/strong&gt;

Breasts. Breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts. Breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts! Breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts! Breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts, breasts! Breasts. There. Now, if Ann Outhouse wants to...</description>
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	<p>Breasts. Breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts. Breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts! Breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts, breasts! Breasts, breasts, breasts. Breasts, breasts! Breasts. There. Now, if Ann Outhouse wants to&#8230;
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		<title>by: ms_xeno</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2006 00:39:59 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>Gack.  Sorry. PUNISHED, not &quot;Published.&quot;  Must sleep. :o

Though now that I think about it, if Rush, Newt, and the rest had made enough noise, Billy Boy probably &lt;i&gt;would&lt;/i&gt; have called for some kind of public shame monument for recalcitrent slutty welfare queens.  Hell, he probably would have read their names aloud every night on FOX if he thought it would score him some points with the neanderthals amongst the general public.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Gack.  Sorry. PUNISHED, not &#8220;Published.&#8221;  Must sleep. <img src='http://pandagon.blogsome.com/wp-images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
	<p>Though now that I think about it, if Rush, Newt, and the rest had made enough noise, Billy Boy probably <i>would</i> have called for some kind of public shame monument for recalcitrent slutty welfare queens.  Hell, he probably would have read their names aloud every night on FOX if he thought it would score him some points with the neanderthals amongst the general public.
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		<title>by: ms_xeno</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Sep 2006 00:37:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;What he did to welfare will never be forgivable.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Silly Djur.  It's only poor women who need to be published for the wrong kind of fucking.  Not the rich White guys who kick them and their kids around to score points with the very Bible-thumpers they claim to despise once election time rolls around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<blockquote><p>What he did to welfare will never be forgivable.</p></blockquote>
	<p>Silly Djur.  It&#8217;s only poor women who need to be published for the wrong kind of fucking.  Not the rich White guys who kick them and their kids around to score points with the very Bible-thumpers they claim to despise once election time rolls around.
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		<title>by: MikeEss</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Sep 2006 23:34:22 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;And surely Iâ€™m not the only one who recalls that the â€œOMG adultery!111!!!â€? â€˜wingers turned a blind eye to extramarital fornicators Dan Burton, Newt Gingrich and Helen Chenoweth, and to Strom â€œIâ€™ve groped more women than Bill Clintonâ€™s said hello toâ€? Thurmond.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I kept hoping that there really was a god and he/she would send lighting bolts down to punish the hipocrites, but I was denied.  If that isn't proof of the non-existance of god, I don't know what would be...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<blockquote><p>And surely Iâ€™m not the only one who recalls that the â€œOMG adultery!111!!!â€? â€˜wingers turned a blind eye to extramarital fornicators Dan Burton, Newt Gingrich and Helen Chenoweth, and to Strom â€œIâ€™ve groped more women than Bill Clintonâ€™s said hello toâ€? Thurmond.</p></blockquote>
	<p>I kept hoping that there really was a god and he/she would send lighting bolts down to punish the hipocrites, but I was denied.  If that isn&#8217;t proof of the non-existance of god, I don&#8217;t know what would be&#8230;
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		<title>by: mythago</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Sep 2006 22:57:53 +0100</pubDate>
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					<description>And surely I'm not the only one who recalls that the &quot;OMG adultery!111!!!&quot; 'wingers turned a blind eye to extramarital fornicators Dan Burton, Newt Gingrich and Helen Chenoweth, and to Strom &quot;I've groped more women than Bill Clinton's said hello to&quot; Thurmond.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>And surely I&#8217;m not the only one who recalls that the &#8220;OMG adultery!111!!!&#8221; &#8216;wingers turned a blind eye to extramarital fornicators Dan Burton, Newt Gingrich and Helen Chenoweth, and to Strom &#8220;I&#8217;ve groped more women than Bill Clinton&#8217;s said hello to&#8221; Thurmond.
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		<title>by: Amanda Marcotte</title>
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					<description>I don't really think so, SH.  I think that right wingers believe most sexual harassment suits are a lie, and that became a self-fulfilling prophecy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I don&#8217;t really think so, SH.  I think that right wingers believe most sexual harassment suits are a lie, and that became a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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		<title>by: Hershele Ostropoler</title>
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					<description>Just because Hilary Clinton didn't leave her husband when his adulterous mistreatment of her --- you won't catch me using minimizing terms like &quot;incident&quot; --- came to light doesn't mean they had an open marriage, or an arrangement, or she's an opportunist (she is, but that's not evidence of it). Sometimes love leadds to forgiveness. Sometimes liberals have values, and if liberals can have values, Hilary Clinton might too, and she may believe that a marriage is a commitment and divorce an absolute last resort.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Just because Hilary Clinton didn&#8217;t leave her husband when his adulterous mistreatment of her &#8212; you won&#8217;t catch me using minimizing terms like &#8220;incident&#8221; &#8212; came to light doesn&#8217;t mean they had an open marriage, or an arrangement, or she&#8217;s an opportunist (she is, but that&#8217;s not evidence of it). Sometimes love leadds to forgiveness. Sometimes liberals have values, and if liberals can have values, Hilary Clinton might too, and she may believe that a marriage is a commitment and divorce an absolute last resort.
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		<title>by: S.H.</title>
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					<description>&quot;I refuse to put adultery into the same category as sexist mistreatment of women. To do so does two very unfair things: 1) It degrades the reality of oppression by putting it in the same category as what is better described as interpersonal problems and 2) It casts feminists as Victorian busybodies who are running around trying to protect women from the harsh realities of life. Adultery is patriarchal when a man is abusing his patriarchal power over his wife to get away with it while not allowing her the same freedom. But the reality of adultery is that it goes both ways, both sexes do it. No one thinks Bill Clinton is Husband of the Year. But itâ€™s not a feminist issue like domestic violence, rape, or sexual harassment is.&quot;

I knew my post would stir up the shit. I knew it was a sticky issue so I was gonna hold my tongue but now my post keeps getting twisted.  I did seperate the two myself, maybe not clearly enough in the post for some. But I always have, that's why I voted for him the first time despite the Gennifer Flowers debacle.  The point is once Paula Jones et al came out that's where I jumped ship. That WAS more than adultery and that WAS an issue feminists ignored and it DID set back sexual harassment litigation. Actually the Lewinsky debacle did that too, just take a look at the intern jokes that started the whole mess with Jessica. When fucking an intern becomes a national punchline to a tacky joke that has consequences.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8220;I refuse to put adultery into the same category as sexist mistreatment of women. To do so does two very unfair things: 1) It degrades the reality of oppression by putting it in the same category as what is better described as interpersonal problems and 2) It casts feminists as Victorian busybodies who are running around trying to protect women from the harsh realities of life. Adultery is patriarchal when a man is abusing his patriarchal power over his wife to get away with it while not allowing her the same freedom. But the reality of adultery is that it goes both ways, both sexes do it. No one thinks Bill Clinton is Husband of the Year. But itâ€™s not a feminist issue like domestic violence, rape, or sexual harassment is.&#8221;</p>
	<p>I knew my post would stir up the shit. I knew it was a sticky issue so I was gonna hold my tongue but now my post keeps getting twisted.  I did seperate the two myself, maybe not clearly enough in the post for some. But I always have, that&#8217;s why I voted for him the first time despite the Gennifer Flowers debacle.  The point is once Paula Jones et al came out that&#8217;s where I jumped ship. That WAS more than adultery and that WAS an issue feminists ignored and it DID set back sexual harassment litigation. Actually the Lewinsky debacle did that too, just take a look at the intern jokes that started the whole mess with Jessica. When fucking an intern becomes a national punchline to a tacky joke that has consequences.
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		<title>by: Amanda Marcotte</title>
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					<description>Agreed, but it's deeply sexist to insinuate that women's voting patterns should be based on a man's personal life above his policies.  Plus, if we were to have a male purity contest, there's few to no straight men that haven't exploited their privilege in sexual relationships, especially in ways that fall far short of coercion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Agreed, but it&#8217;s deeply sexist to insinuate that women&#8217;s voting patterns should be based on a man&#8217;s personal life above his policies.  Plus, if we were to have a male purity contest, there&#8217;s few to no straight men that haven&#8217;t exploited their privilege in sexual relationships, especially in ways that fall far short of coercion.
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